State of Disco

First National Gay March

At the first National Gay March in Washington, D.C., in 1979, I found myself standing along the sidelines watching ­ first the thousands of Lesbians and then the myriad of other Gay groups (Gay dentists, Gay North Dakotans, Gay Oklahomans, Gay parents, etc.).

I joined the parade when the final group appeared. They were surrounding a sound truck blasting out the music I'd come out to. I eagerly joined what I dubbed "The State of Disco".

Uncle Charlie's South

During the mid-70's in Manhattan, I lived in a five-floor walk up at 39th Street and Lexington Avenue, making Uncle Charlie's South (UCS) my living room. It was here that I became more articulate about the phenomenon of Disco, which one only heard in clubs ­ never on the radio.

The juke box at UCS seemed always to have the best, most current, music. I'd also noticed a man who often sat on or around the juke box.

Finally, somIt was 1973eone clued me in--the box was programmed by Barry Manilow, the same man I saw lounging around the box. Barry was only just hitting the radar due to his affiliation with Bette Midler.

In case anyone from those days recalls me, I had started my facial hair (which I have maintained lo these 30-odd years) and usually had a hair "pick" in my hip pocket.

Gay Pride NYC 1971

I'd first seen Barry in person at my first Gay Pride rally event about 1971 in Washington Square Park in Greenwich Village. He accompanied Bette Midler who performed that day.

She sang only one song ­ her theme song of the 70's ­ "Friends". She sang. She invited us to sing. We joined hands, standing and swaying with the words and rhythm.

It was a memorable affirmation after My Military Experience.

Dan at monument for Pride

As I recall, the jokes were weak about the phallic structure we rallied before. The hat was in anticipation of my move West.

The 1979 March had diversity.

Updated 10-17-2001

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